We Are Alone.

Why do people believe that they can be understood other individuals?
Why do people assume that just because they are loved by others, or insist that since they are close to certain people, that these people can completely understand what is going on in their lives?
I once believed this, in a matter of fact, I once did everything I could to make this possible.
I had faith in believing that one day I would meet a person who would understand me completely, or I would atleast somehow convince them that they understood what I was going through and wouldn't judge me for it because of this.
But what I've learned in life is you will be judged, by everyone you meet.
I judge, you judge, everyone judges, and that is what makes me so miserable.
I know now that no one will ever understand me and I will be judged because I in fact am crazy, crazier than anyone I know, and it's not just completely understanding people that we are unable to do.
We are alone, and this can be denyed as much as wished, but it is the truth.
Why do we call ourselves "individuals" if we insist on saying that we are not alone?
Why aren't people one big person that roames around the earth, loving it's many selves and knowing that no matter what happens it will be loved by whoever it wishes because it is one?
No matter how many times "I am there for you," is spoken, we are the ones required to make decisions that will change our lives forever.
So why does it matter so much if we have 1 friend or a million?
We are alone, and to those who feel it more than others, why do we make it such a priority to get the attention of the ones who we cannot stop thinking about, wanting or needing, when we know that they will never understand us because they will never comprehend how much we've needed them? They have never needed us in such a way.

We are alone, all of us, why can't we just accept that?